How Can I Find My Spiritual Partner?
‘How can I find my spiritual partner?’ This is the first question I was asked in the New Year. If you are in search of your spiritual partner (or are already in a relationship wondering if this one is for life or not) this is how I responded.
According to Gary Zukav, a relationship is called Spiritual Partnership when it is between equals for the purpose of spiritual growth. As per this definition, a Spiritual Partnership can be established not only between partners but any individuals who consider each other equal and act towards achieving mutual spiritual development. Here, I focus on romantic relationships.
To establish a partnership that promotes mutual development we first need to feel happy and able on our own, which is only possible by developing self-differentiation. Self differentiation involves being independent of others’ appreciation and approval. Our self seems to grow as we differentiate ourselves.
To establish a partnership that promotes mutual development we first need to feel happy and able on our own, which is only possible by developing self-differentiation. Self differentiation involves being independent of others’ appreciation and approval. Our self seems to grow as we differentiate ourselves. In fact the self is always present at our core the trick is being able to identify with it.
The people to whom we are attracted are of a similar level of awareness to us.
Many think they are not attractive, some even believe that they are cursed or damned.
Furthermore, several scientists such as Nathan Ackerman, Mark Wolynn and Murray Bowen, following (in their own way} the path led by Freud, demonstrate the effect of the emotional legacy we inherited from our ancestors on our current life.
Here are some suggestions for you to cleanse yourself of all these limiting processes and beliefs in order to prepare yourself to meet your spiritual partner and to present yourself to them with an “attractive glow”:
- Scan your store of movies, literature, and real life experiences for relationships that appeal to you, strike you as ideal. Pay attention to the differentiated personality traits of the people in those relationships you’ve singled out.
- Imagine your ideal, desirable relationship. Create a vision board about it, where you post pictures or articles showing what you do as a couple, how you approach each other. Place your vision board where you see it frequently.
- Imagine yourself in that relationship. Feel as if you are in it, notice all your feelings and emotions.
- Keep experiencing and reflecting these feelings even though there may not be a real person in your life yet.
Use Ho’oponopono and the Sedona Method when you experience difficulties.
Your spiritual partner is the person with whom you will grow up, so you shouldn’t expect this relationship to be trouble-free. There will be pain, joy, sadness and fun. You will struggle and make mistakes while learning.
These methods have also the power to transform the way you are in your current relationship, therefore to change your life.
I trust you will use them wisely. I would love to hear your experiences.
I am awidower age 62yrs no children.i.am physical mentally sick.i want company of a women of age 40 and above for a living spiritual life.she should be composed and able to take my care and have no sex desire.financially she should be rich and spend money on me I have good financial status.i will share full history if someone responds
I need a spiritual relationship. Already I have a relationship. But it’s a long distance relationship. I really don’t like this situation. I need to meet him so soon. I would like to love him by watching his eyes face to face. But he is not interesting to meet me. I need very high communication. But he doesn’t like to use social media as I like. He doesn’t keep going a good and deep conversation with me. But always I need it now. But I think he can’t get me. I need a person for high communication with a good relationship. But I don’t like to give up him too. I love him so much. But I need him to have with a spiritual relationship. I really need it. But it’s not happening. As I feel he likes to keep going a sexual basic relationship. It’s not important to me. I don’t know what is happening. But I feel another thing also. Which I had a dream in my history about a relationship of me with so much spiritual person. He is also like me and the conversation is very muvh high. I don’t know what is happening now. I am still waiting. For a spiritual person. I don’t know who is that. May be he will be my own boyfriend.